Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than themselves. (Php 2:3)
The contrast between the world and the church is seen no clearer in any other precept than the one offered in Philippians. Quite literally vainglory means self-conceit. This is the world’s first principle; exalt you. Popular culture considers self-esteem healthy and encourages a “positive self-image”. In disputations and strife our position is to be held stringently says the world. I confess freely that at times of controversy my “natural” inclination is to preserve my own “glory” and to esteem myself better than others.
And yet, the church is told to do nothing through strife and vainglory. All things in the church are to be done through humility. As Gill says the grace of humility is an excellent ornament to a Christian. I can not speak for anyone but myself; but I must confess that this precept is most difficult. I want to seek after my own glory, I want to protect my reputation, my knowledge, and I want to exalt myself. When we come together as the church the sweetest fellowship is to be had where there is humility and lowliness of mind, for we are no longer concerned with our glory only the Masters.
May God grant us the grace of humility and kindly grant us lowliness of mind.